Better Goodbyes by LifeScape
Their stories, in their own words,while you can still ask.
Their life, their people, their voice, all told their way. Not a memorial: a living tribute, made with them, for everyone who loves them.
A Life Story
Mama Ruth: Her Story
See what you'll make
Eighty-six years, told like a film.
Chapter by chapter: where she came from, the life she built, the hard years, what she gave her family, and her own words for the grandchildren. Every family member adds what they have, and the story comes together the way it deserves to be told.
Watch the sample Life StoryA made-up family, filmed with stock footage. About three minutes. Bring tissues.
What makes it different
A slideshow shows what happened. A Life Story shows why it mattered.
Old photos in a shoebox. A few videos on someone's phone. Stories only she still remembers. Better Goodbyes brings them together into a story with a beginning, a middle, and her own voice at the end.
Where they came from
The town, the house, the parents who raised them. The baby picture kept in a Bible for sixty years.
The life they built
How they met. The first job. Four dollars and a promise.
The hard years
The losses, the lean times, and how they got everyone through.
What they gave us
The table with room for everyone. The faith, the lessons, the laugh you could hear from the driveway.
In their own words
What they want the grandchildren to know, in their own voice, for good.
Tell one story or many. Just tell it right.
Her whole life, or one chapter at a time: the love story, the kitchen and her recipes, forty years in the choir, the move up North. Each one shaped with care, by the people who love her.
So the grandchildren can hear it in her voice.
Ask a question, press record, and let them talk. Answers can be a video, a voice recording or typed out, with soft music underneath if you like. They can skip any question and re-record any answer. Years from now, the family won't just read her advice. They'll hear her say it.
How it works
1
Start their Life Story
Tell us who it's for and what makes their story worth keeping. You become the StoryKeeper. A son, daughter, grandchild or caregiver can run it for them.
2
Sit down together
Ask a few questions at a time and press record on your phone. Short videos and voice recordings are perfect. They answer in their own words.
3
Invite the family
Brothers, sisters, cousins and old friends add the photos and memories they've kept. You review everything before it appears.
4
Watch it together
Shape it into chapters with music, like a short film of their life, and watch it with them while they're here to see it.
Questions to start with
Most people don't know where to begin. Ask one of these, press record, and let them talk.
- “What was the house you grew up in like?”
- “How did you meet the person you married?”
- “What did your parents teach you that you still use?”
- “What was the hardest year of your life, and how did you get through it?”
- “What recipe should never be lost, and how do you make it?”
- “What do you want your grandchildren to know about you?”
The chapters of a life
Every Life Story starts with these chapters. Rename, reorder or skip any of them.
Early Years
Family & Friends
Life & Milestones
Stories & Memories
In Their Own Words
What They Gave Us
Messages & Tributes
Reflections
Each chapter opens with its own title card when the story plays, like a documentary.
Their story stays with the people who love them.
Private by default
Only the family and friends you approve can see it, unless you and your loved one choose to share it with everyone.
You approve every visitor
People ask to follow the story, and you decide. Remove anyone at any time.
You review every memory
Family can add photos, videos and notes, but nothing appears until the StoryKeeper says yes.
Their story, their way
They can skip any question, re-record any answer, and keep anything they'd rather not share just for the family.
Questions families ask
Isn't this for after someone passes?
No, and that's the point. Better Goodbyes is a living tribute. It's built while they're here to tell the stories, hear what they meant to people, and watch it with you.
My mom isn't comfortable with technology. Can she still do this?
Yes. Most Life Stories are run by a son, daughter, grandchild or caregiver. You hold the phone and ask the questions; they just talk.
Who can see it?
Only the people you approve. If your loved one wants to share their story with the world, you can make it public, and you can change that any time.
Can the whole family add to it?
Yes. Invite brothers, sisters, cousins, church family and old friends to add photos and memories. You review everything before it appears.
What if we want more than one story?
Tell as many as you like: her whole life, the kitchen and her recipes, her years in the choir, the love story with Granddad. Each one is its own Momentary.
Better Goodbyes is in early testing. Your feedback shapes what it becomes.
Everyone has someone whose stories should not be lost.
Sit down with them this week. Ask one question. Press record.
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